One single answer to all the questions of the world......

क्यों व्यर्थ की चिंता करते हो? किससे व्यर्थ डरते हो? कौन तुम्हें मार सक्ता है? अात्मा ना पैदा होती है, न मरती है।
जो हुअा, वह अच्छा हुअा, जो हो रहा है, वह अच्छा हो रहा है, जो होगा, वह भी अच्छा ही होगा। तुम भूत का पश्चाताप न करो। भविष्य की चिन्ता न करो। वर्तमान चल रहा है।
तुम्हारा क्या गया, जो तुम रोते हो? तुम क्या लाए थे, जो तुमने खो दिया? तुमने क्या पैदा किया था, जो नाश हो गया? न तुम कुछ लेकर अाए, जो लिया यहीं से लिया। जो दिया, यहीं पर दिया। जो लिया, इसी (भगवान) से लिया। जो दिया, इसी को दिया।
खाली हाथ अाए अौर खाली हाथ चले। जो अाज तुम्हारा है, कल अौर किसी का था, परसों किसी अौर का होगा। तुम इसे अपना समझ कर मग्न हो रहे हो। बस यही प्रसन्नता तुम्हारे दु:खों का कारण है।
परिवर्तन संसार का नियम है। जिसे तुम मृत्यु समझते हो, वही तो जीवन है। एक क्षण में तुम करोड़ों के स्वामी बन जाते हो, दूसरे ही क्षण में तुम दरिद्र हो जाते हो। मेरा-तेरा, छोटा-बड़ा, अपना-पराया, मन से मिटा दो, फिर सब तुम्हारा है, तुम सबके हो।
न यह शरीर तुम्हारा है, न तुम शरीर के हो। यह अग्नि, जल, वायु, पृथ्वी, अाकाश से बना है अौर इसी में मिल जायेगा। परन्तु अात्मा स्थिर है - फिर तुम क्या हो?
तुम अपने अापको भगवान के अर्पित करो। यही सबसे उत्तम सहारा है। जो इसके सहारे को जानता है वह भय, चिन्ता, शोक से सर्वदा मुक्त है।
जो कुछ भी तू करता है, उसे भगवान के अर्पण करता चल। ऐसा करने से सदा जीवन-मुक्त का अानंन्द अनुभव करेगा।

My Dream!!!!

Everyday I dream of becoming the most powerful girl on this planet....Naa not because I want to dominate someone but because I want to do something useful and substantial for this world....

Every little effort counts and I am trying my best in all possible ways to contribute like not littering the roads and streets is one example....

My dream is to open a small school for poor children,For now it's 4 sure is a dream but once I become independent and financially sound I would definitely make it a reality....

What is it that makes me insecure at times?

God had always been great for he has never deprived me of any pleasure of life.I've got a good family,nice circle of friends and above all I've got someone with whom I can share all my sorrows and happiness-MY BEST FRIEND,but still sometimes I feel there is something which is lacking,I mean I feel insecure....

I know change is inevitable and If am happy today,that does not mean that's never gonna change....I know every thing,every relationship has to(some or the other day)face the hardships of life but still I want everything to be perfect and nothing/nobody on this planet is perfect....

The more I try to give,the more people criticize me...

Why am I always expected to give? Why is it that whatever I do,I am not appreciated? Do I lack somewhere in giving what is expected out of me? Do I not deserve the way to live life my own way and receive Love?

I am a failure may be because I always try to please everyone.

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger? There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.

Thumb represents your : Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your : Siblings
Middle finger represents your : Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your : Life Partner
& Last (Little) finger represents your : Children

Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold them together - back to back

Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip
(As shown in the figure Above)

Now, try to Separate your Thumbs (representing the parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong (Sorry but its the Truth), and have to leave you sooner or later.

Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings)... ., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives.

Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)... ., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT.

This is amazing but then why do they wish to separate,why do they hide things from each other,why can't they be truthful to each other,why do they start taking each other for granted,why cant they forgive each other for their mistakes,why cant they respect each other's feelings and try to fulfil them.....

Redemptive Power of LOVE.....

People say the power of Love is redemptive....it can save you from all the evils of the world but what about the 'evil' which has grown into the minds of the two in love....

Distance can never create shallowness in true love neither can anybody else's intervention....but what if one out of the two in love is not willing to give anything else to the relationship....

Love can neither be created nor my destroyed but if it can give you immense pleasure at one time,it can also ruin your life at the same time....

LOVE-Is it the beginning or the end....

Now,this is a tough question....You never thought of it while entering into a relationship....Right???

and now that you've entered - "nothing seems to be going right" OR "everything should come to an end " OR "you can't take it any-more" OR "the one you thought of to be your better-half has changed into bitter-half" and bla-bla-bla ..... Such questions make you behave in the most unacceptable and crappiest way.

Think about it.....Is the problem in your relationship/situation/your-understanding or in the person?